Circumstances

I specifically remember this one...
i was travelling on my way from surat station to the bus stand where i cud get bus for essar... i could have taken an personal auto but as u knw the middle class money saving thing... i took a shared one... and with three people in the back seat of auto there was not mch place in the auto but the shared once always has some space :) and they fill it up upto 5 so i was expecting more. On the way a paralyzed man stopped the auto, he had no legs and was crawling and the auto driver stopped at him. but as soon as he was about to get into the auto, the driver said 'Nahi bhai aaj nahi betho tum jagah nahi hai' the paralyzed guy said 'main paise de dunga na' the driver said 'nahi mujhe nahi chahiye aaj jagah nahi hai' the paralyzed guy said ' yar main andhe ghante se auto ka wait kar raha hun dhup main plz le chal mujhe' and the driver said 'bhaiya aaj nahi hoga' n just drove off. The people sitting behind including me were upset due to the behavior of the driver, he could have helped the poor guy and all those thoughts were going inside my head. And by my surprise the auto driver said... "Aap sahab log soch rahe honge k sala kitna kamina driver hai aise insaan ki madad nahi karta, par sahab main aapko ek bat kehta hun, main us admi ko roz bithata hun n kabhi paise bhi nahi leta" then i said "toh aaj bhi bitha lete paise toh woh de raha tha na tum hi jyada natak kar rahe the" driver smiled and said "dekha na sahab maine kaha na aap sab mujhe gali de rahe hoge man main, aapko pata hai aaj maine use kyu nahi bithaya, nahi na fir bhi aap ne mujhe bura bhala kaha, koi nai main batata hun, ye meri auto nahi hai n main bhi kiraye pe chalata hun, aaj subah 3 ghante se station pe khada hun lekin boni nahi hui, aap logo ki pehli boni thi and agar main use bithata toh woh do logo ki jagah le leta n mere liye woh nuksan hota. sahab main bhi roz k paise kamake apne parivar ka pet bharta hun, agar main use roz bithaunga toh mera beta bhuka rahega n main ye nahi dekh sakta. Main har kisi k sath acha nahi reh sakta. Mere halat mujhe nahi rehne dete. Ab aap jo bhi mere bare main soche us se mujhe koi farak nahi padega lekin mere biwi bache bukhe rahe toh mujhe farak padega. Shayad aap k liye ek rupaya kuch nahi bt mere liye ek ek rupya kimti hai.." saying this he smiled and dropped me to my location i paid him and he left.
After he was gone i kept on thinking are the people bad or the conditions??
i dont knw but this thing kept on my mind very strongly no matter how good u do one bad thing ruins it all but is the thing really bad...
we think something as good but the other person may think it as bad so is it all about prespective
at some conditions we are very good but under some circumstances we may b bad for others so whom should v blame ourselves or the circumstances...
well the poor guy just drove a auto but made a mark on my mind...
"Is the person bad or the Circumstances??" - the question remains....